Paul Lennander
With a Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology, certification as a Life Mastery Coach, and advanced training in Reiki healing and breathwork facilitation, Paul has dedicated his career to helping people create meaningful, lasting change in their lives.
Blending professional rigor with deep intuitive insight and a lifelong focus on nervous system regulation, he offers a holistic, strengths-based approach to transformational life and wellness coaching—supporting clients in clarifying their vision, breaking through limiting patterns, and building practical pathways to fulfillment, with a particular sensitivity to LGBTQI experiences.
In his work as a sexual wellness and functioning coach, Paul draws from extensive personal exploration and professional study to help clients reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, communicate desires and boundaries, and experience authentic pleasure and confidence, integrating manifestation techniques as a powerful mindset tool within his Sexual Mastery Program.
Your Facilitators
Trevor James
Trevor is a touch and cuddle therapist, massage practitioner, sacred intimacy guide, and coach devoted to helping men reconnect with their bodies, their truth, and their capacity for intimacy, pleasure, and meaningful connection. His work is designed for men who feel disconnected from themselves or others, and who long for greater ease, confidence, self-acceptance, and depth in their intimate lives.
Through a refined, compassionate, and deeply attuned approach, Trevor offers 1:1 services including massage therapy, touch therapy, cuddle therapy, sacred intimacy sessions, and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples. His work blends presence, consent, emotional intelligence, and embodied practice to create experiences that are both grounding and quietly profound.
Trevor holds certifications and training in Massage Therapy, Touch Therapy, Cuddle Therapy, Tantra, Coaching, Sacred Intimacy, and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Drawing from these modalities, he supports clients in healing shame, softening emotional armor, deepening self-awareness, and cultivating more authentic connection, pleasure, and relational confidence.
He is also the author of On Being Seen: Chronicles of a Touch & Intimacy Therapist, a thoughtful exploration of touch, longing, healing, and the human need to be met with presence and care. In addition to his private work with clients, Trevor leads workshops, retreats, and educational experiences centered on intimacy, sexuality, embodiment, and emotional connection.